After tying the knot and settling into our own humble abode, the importance of privacy and peace becomes essential. Unfortunately for Cynthia, a young newlywed, she frequently has to handle unexpected visits from her in-laws. She is expected to endure and show respect to the situation, as her husband believes it is necessary due to his parents’ assistance in purchasing the house. Cynthia, feeling completely frustrated, decided to share her entire story with us.

My in-laws have a habit of dropping by unexpectedly. They linger for hours, indulge in our food, and depart in the wee hours of the morning. According to my husband, it’s important to show kindness to those who have assisted us in purchasing our home.

Recently, I began venturing out as soon as they arrived. Yesterday, I arrived back at my place earlier than expected. My husband’s face lost all color, while my mother-in-law burst into laughter upon laying eyes on me. As I stepped into the living room, a wave of shock washed over me. My husband’s four energetic nephews were wreaking havoc, causing damage to our precious couch and indulging in their artistic endeavors on my carpet. I was absolutely livid; it seemed as though my home had been transformed into a chaotic playground.

My husband turned to me and casually mentioned that he would have tidied up if I hadn’t come back early tonight.

My husband maintains the belief that we have a shared responsibility with his parents due to their financial assistance, resulting in our home being considered a shared space.

I’ve reached my breaking point. Am I being impolite, or am I justified in feeling this way?
Cynthia